What is Confidence in Love, Love Help, and Jealousy Solutions.

What is Confidence in Love, How to Help yourself with Jealousy, Love Help, Love Solutions, etc...

Feeling of Jealousy comes natural with love and being loved. The person we love we want only for ourselves, and there comes suffering for love. Jealousy and Obsession are often connected. Its important to have Confidence in Love...

 

If you keep it under control, jealousy is healthy feeling that feeds love

Hes/Shes wonderful with you, careful, gentle, charming. Does every date with him/her ends in magical atmosphere? Not even close to: as the days passes, the more time you spend with him/her you will become more aware at those cute looks that every girl/guy throws at him/her. Oh and ofc, he is accepting them with pleasure. So, instead of that new love bring you happiness, what you feel for him/her is becoming source of suffering. That kind of suffering you can feel with your regular partner, or partner who proposed you, giving you biggest prove of his love, or even by your husband/wife that many of your friends are envy on you that he/she is still, after many years of marriage, looking at you with non-hidden love and adoration. Probably you are perfectly aware of that but you are pretending that you don't know what is the source of your suffering. In that case i am gonna say it instead of you: The thing is in JEALOUSY !

Jealousy is okay, but only in small doses 

Feeling of jealousy naturally with love and being loved. The person we love we want only for ourselves, and if other girl/boy dares to look upon him/her (even that is hidden look, or even non conscious) we are looking at that as danger. If that need of possession remains in "understandable" limits its not for judging, actually if its in normal doses it can work as aphrodisiac. Problems starting when jealousy becomes pathological. Recent research in Italy showed that, if some person in interval of 24 hours spend more than 60 minutes in obsessive thinking in imaginary cheating from his partner, jealousy that she/he feels can ruin her/his life. Feelings that are appearing with Jealousy are causing lower levels of serotonin, neurotransmitter that affects on good mood, and with that on Good Relationship too. Beside all that, big number of people that are suffering from jealousy are not able to keep that emotion under control, so they are becoming real criminal investigators that are trying to find any evidence of cheating from their partners which is, very often, completely faithful and loyal. 

Lack of Self Confidence 

What is causing that emotion which is, depends on the person, more or less intensive, and in some cases is really heart "breaker". Base of appearing jealousy is insecurity and, in big number of cases, low self confidence and self esteem. Beside that is very offending to the partner, accusation that he/she is unfaithful is directed against the one that is actually accusing. If you tell your partner "you are cheating on me", that actually means same as you have said "i don't feel special in your eyes". Or you are deeply convinced that girl/guy like you, if not better, exists on every step, and he/she can have whoever she/he likes. The worst that you can do is to underestimate yourselves because in that case is more than certain that you gonna end up as loser. 

He wants you, that means he loves you 

If you don't want to spend sleepless nights, devouring yourself with jealousy and making endless conversations with your friends, naming every suspicious move of him/her, its enough to convince yourself that actually you embody everything that your partner expects from woman/man that he wants to spend rest of his life with.
Self Confidence can't be bought, and its not gift from nature too. You must work to Increase Your Self Confidence. So, the best way to not let yourself to negative emotions is to face with reality. In other words, if you live or go out with some person that means that you want him/her and that she/he is your choice. This rule is true upside down too: most likely he wants to be with you  (and you are not only guy/girl on the world) and he wants to be person that is worth of your attention and love (and he/she is not the only guy/girl in the world). Its non-sense to ruin your life with absurd and, in most cases, non-based paranoia feelings, except if in your relationship you notice very concerning signs. Even if your head sometimes rings the bell of alert, that doesn't necessarily means that its prove of cheating, especially in long and stable relationships. In those relationships healthy dose of jealousy is best remedy for warming up the passion that, with time, is often losing intensity. Jealousy then is becoming some sort of test about how deep in love you are in your partner still. 

How to Survive 

Vaccine against cheating does not exist, not that is only reason for jealousy. Jealousy sometimes is directed to other spheres of life too. For example: to partners past, family, playing soccer with friends etc. In that case, problem is ONLY in you: you are equalizing yourself with the object or person you love, so if you don't have 24 hours/day attention from him/her you gonna count that as cheating. But, completely attention, typical for early stage of love (we are completing each other and we both are enough for happiness and we need nothing else), but with time that starting to choke, personal feel for freedom is becoming "rock around your neck".
Many of the girls that kind of symbiosis wants for whole life. Best tactic to survive through jealousy crisis (and for saving the relationship) is not acceptance but respect the partners room and freedom. But, how to survive the evening when he is out with his friends, and you are alone at home obsessed by thinking what is he doing outside? Jealousy is powerful emotion, but it can be destructive so we shouldn't help that emotion to become like that, so instead we should make it to concrete action: make an alternative plan. Going out with friends in disco club is not good solution because loud music is not disabling you for normal conversation so you would be with your negative thoughts again. Better choice for going out is going for a dinner in fancy restaurant in which, beside all other, you should have very nice outfit. Pick your clothes with care, go to a hairdresser and put some nice make up - it will give you better self confidence, and that is the only right and real weapon without space for mistake. That doesn't mean that you are revenging for his going out (if you go out, then i will too !), but that you can rely on yourself when hes not around you. Beside, that move will help you easier and faster to regenerate in case your love story one day ends up after all. 

The conclusion?
Destroying yourself to hold a guy / girl to you is mistake that you MUST NOT do ever in your life !

P.S. If you have any issues in life with love, jealousy, confidence, or just regular life problem you can comment here and share with us so we can give an opinion or if you need discretion about any of your problems feel free to mail me at Message.Me.Here.For.Free@gmail.com and i would be glad to help you.

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